“I don’t get it. Why are you still single?”
I hear these words often. Maybe some of you do too. But they came, more recently, from a guy who I really, really liked. So when the words were followed by, “You’re beautiful, you’re smart, you’re a sweetheart… Is there something you’re hiding under there I don’t know about?” I smiled, I giggled, I swooned, and blushed.
I took it all in as a compliment, because surely, that’s how he intended it to come across, right?