May 11, 2018 at 6:57 pm (authenticity, courage, Crazy, Dating, love, Relationships, Settling, single, Standards, strength, Uncategorized, Values)
Tags: alone, Crazy, love, not lonely, Settling, single, Standards, Values
“I don’t get it. Why are you still single?”
I hear these words often. Maybe some of you do too. But they came, more recently, from a guy who I really, really liked. So when the words were followed by, “You’re beautiful, you’re smart, you’re a sweetheart… Is there something you’re hiding under there I don’t know about?” I smiled, I giggled, I swooned, and blushed.
I took it all in as a compliment, because surely, that’s how he intended it to come across, right?
October 13, 2017 at 10:27 pm (authenticity, courage, Dating, Dream Guy, Heart, love, Relationships, romance, truth, value)
Tags: absence, attractive, be there, consistency, Dating, downer, Heart, most important, number one, sexy, show up, traits
Absence does NOT make my heart grow fonder. Have I already written about this before? Well, here it goes again then, but this time, louder. It seems that some guys didn’t quite hear me the first time.
I used to think that there were certain qualities in a guy that I was looking for. You girls know what I mean- the “list”. The one with all the physical and emotional and spiritual traits of our ideal guy. Over the years, tall, dark and drop dead gorgeous got shoved down and replaced by authentic, honest and ambitious.
February 15, 2017 at 6:01 am (authenticity, Belief, connection, Dream Guy, Gratitude, Heart, love, My List, romance, truth)
Tags: Affection, believe, Dream Guy, List, love, Loyalty, Respect, romance, Spirtual, The One, truth
Yes, you know the list I’m talking about. The one that lays down exactly what I’m looking for in a guy -the ultimate one. The one I’ve been waiting for but hasn’t shown up …yet. Notice how I say YET. That means I still believe in him. I just don’t know how or when he will appear. Maybe he needs some help, to know that I know exactly what I want and won’t settle for any less, … than HIM.
Maybe I’ve confused him. Maybe just as he is about to show up, I hang out with a guy who doesn’t have any of the qualities that I want. And then MY guy thinks… hmmm… she’s not ready for me. So he ends up having to wait a little longer until I figure it out. No. Don’t wait! I am ready. Sometimes I mess up, because I lose my patience. But I still believe in you… I want to make it clear who you are and what I want. And what better time, than tonight- when I am at home on Valentine’s Day… without you, again.
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